7 tips to avoid post marriage crisis

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Evelyn Carpenter

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Wearing the wedding rings does not guarantee eternal happiness. On the contrary, love must be nurtured day after day, on a path that both must walk by doing their part. And while many couples relax after the wedding because of all the organization involved, whether it is the wedding decorations, the selection of the banquet or the search for wedding dresses, there is a lot to do.others that inevitably enter into crisis.

Although they should be living their happiest days, there are certain situations that put them in check, either to resume the routine, adapt to living together, reduce anxiety levels or face economic problems, among other reasons. Do you want to anticipate and know what to do when the time comes? Take note of these tips to avoid the post-marital crisis.

1. Do everyday tasks

Back from the honeymoon, concentrate their energy on everyday tasks Don't leave room for boredom and look for new stimuli! For example, make an effort to decorate the house, cook, do the grocery shopping together or encourage each other to make the garden beautiful. The idea is to don't lose the rhythm of working as a team and get a taste for those simple everyday things.

2. Activate your social life

If during this process you left your friends behind and cancelled many social engagements because you were busy picking out wedding decorations, then now it's time for them to catch up Invite your friends over for dinner or plan some fun weekend outings. Go dancing, check out a new restaurant, go to a bandstand, and do anything else you can think of to have fun. You'll see how much fun it will do you! resume activities they did during the relationship .

Set goals

From changing the car, to starting to look for destinations for their next vacation, or even planning when they would like to have a baby. Whatever it is, the bottom line is that go to building the future together, as the life partners they chose to be when they exchanged their gold rings and decided to spend their lives together.

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4. Give lots of gifts

Just because you're married doesn't mean you can leave out the little details. On the contrary, now more than ever. surprise each other with romantic gestures For example, look for short love phrases and use them, either to send them as a message in the middle of the day on WhatsApp or leave them as a little note stuck in different corners of the house. And be careful! don't expect to have an anniversary to give each other gifts.

5. Reminisce about your big day

Do you enjoy reminiscing about the different looks and long party dresses that your guests wore? Then you're in for a treat! check out the videos and photos of the wedding They will always find something different that will catch their attention. Besides, there is nothing healthier for dealing with a crisis than to to relive those moments of maximum happiness like when they said "I do" to each other or raised their wedding glasses for the first toast. Allow yourselves to laugh and connect. without fear, with their deepest emotions.

6. Seek moments of intimacy

The bond of marriage must be strengthened every day and the sexual plane, without a doubt, plays a fundamental role. For this reason, if they feel a little distant at this stage of the relationship, generate the instances yourselves and don't wait for the other person to take the initiative. Organize a candlelight dinner and provide the perfect environment for intimacy .

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7. Take it easy on the economy

Finally, if the problem you are going through is due to the debts left by the marriage, don't worry! Things will be sorted out little by little. and you'll see that it's not such a big deal to have to tighten your belt for a while. That's for sure, seek to maintain open communication and always be clear about economic issues.

As you know, as long as there is love and will, no crisis will be impossible to overcome and even less, the first one they face after marriage. It is not for nothing that they both proudly wear their engagement and wedding rings, with love phrases inscribed on the inside that represent that this commitment is for life.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.