How to prepare a surprise dance at your wedding

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Evelyn Carpenter

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Wedding preparations are not only reduced to looking for wedding decoration ideas, tasting the dishes that will be served at dinner or trying on wedding dresses. There are other details and instances that can be considered and become the most unforgettable moments of the night. An example? A surprise dance.

Music is, without a doubt, a fundamental element in any party, and nowadays there are many brides and grooms who include this fun idea as part of the ceremony. So, with the party dresses giving it all on the dance floor, it will be a moment that everyone will remember.

Next, take note of what you can not miss in the preparation of the surprise dance and what are the steps for everything to go perfectly.

1. Hire a teacher

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For starters, look for a teacher who can teach you the best dance steps It is important that both of you have a good disposition and do not get frustrated if at the beginning it seems difficult, because if you put perseverance and effort, the result will be really incredible and you will only get beautiful phrases of love and applause from the guests.

2. Choose a song you like

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As the aim is to liven up the party with this surprise moment, it is recommended that you choose a dance song. You can choose, for example, the first song you ever danced to together or a song that always makes you happy. The idea is to that it be a song that identifies them and at the same time motivate others.

3. Rehearse as much as you can

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It is not only a matter of learning the choreography, it is also important to rehearse. With practice comes safety, So it's key that you don't forget this point. Setting a schedule can be very effective: set aside dates especially for dance rehearsal and, if it is necessary to call the teacher to reinforce those steps that are a little more difficult, do not hesitate to do so.

4. Get comfortable

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At the time of the dance, try to be as comfortable as possible Lace wedding dresses may not always be the most flexible for dancing, but low shoes or sneakers can help you perform the dance steps in the best way. The same with the hair; it is recommended that the bride wears simple hairstyles at the beginning of the dance to avoid disassembling it or making it uncomfortable during the routine.

5. Occupy all the space

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Some brides and grooms often make the mistake of occupying only a small part of the dance floor, when ideally they should move around the entire venue. They may even encouraging guests by approaching their tables to dance with them The aim is to make everyone feel part of this great surprise.

6. Losing your fear

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Embarrassment or stage fright may take hold of some people, but the important thing here is to forget about that feeling and just enjoy. There are few opportunities like this and rest assured that, if you lose that fear, the rest will be just to give yourself to the celebration and give everyone a moment they will hardly forget.

7. Invite others!

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Something that is also done a lot in marriages are dances type flashmob For this, you can agree with your closest friends and prepare a big dance together. Here it is essential to rehearse a lot more, as a choreography of several people requires more coordination, but if it turns out well, the other guests will be really surprised. In addition, in this instance the guests will be able to show off their long party dresses and it is a great way to to start the dance floor.

You already know, a surprise dance will be the reason for sure love phrases on your wedding day; it's all in the preparation and confidence in yourselves. Now, get your courage up, let your bridal hairstyles loose with loose hair, put on comfortable shoes and let's dance!

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.