The importance of nurturing the relationship with the family of origin

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The family of origin is one of the most precious treasures and nothing justifies leaving it aside after getting married. In fact, it is most likely that a relative has helped them with the wedding decorations and even to choose short love phrases to incorporate in the parties. Father, mother, siblings and grandparents make up the closest circle; those who will be in good times and in bad.If you're looking for ways to nurture your family relationship, here are some tips that will help you.

Leverage social networks

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Today there are no excuses for not communicating, since technology has made life so much easier WhatsApp, for example, is one of the best inventions of recent times and very practical when it comes to keeping in touch with your loved ones. In fact, you can form a group with your closest relatives (dad, mom, siblings), as well as your cousins or the whole family. There are many options and guaranteed communication On the other hand, social networks like Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat will allow them to interact with their loved ones through texts, photos and videos.

Visit each other frequently

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Ideally, once a month if they live in the same city. And beyond communication by phone or chat, there is nothing better to keep the bonds of affection strong, that face-to-face interaction That's why it's so important that they don't stop visiting their parents, siblings and/or nieces and nephews, even if it's only for a short time, these encounters will fill you with energy and love. They know they can count on them, whether it's to share a joy or to overcome a sadness, their families will be the first to give them a big hug. It is enough to remember the joy of their parents when they saw the wedding cake or how happy they were when they knew they would be the godparents. In fact, at the moment of raising the wedding glasses for the first wedding toast, it is always the closest family members who prepare the speech.

Keeping traditions alive

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If they were in the habit of celebrating birthdays, Independence Day, Halloween, Christmas or New Year's Eve as a family, don't let this tradition be lost These are special dates that we can't wait to see when they get married. deserve to be celebrated with loved ones. The idea is to create opportunities to share in person and remind them, from time to time, either through gestures or beautiful phrases of love, how important each one of them is in their lives.

Settling old scores

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Another key factor that will help strengthen ties with their families The most important thing is to resolve all kinds of conflicts that can be dragged from the past, even long before even thinking about the trappings of marriage. Whether it's a misunderstanding with a sibling or a grudge you have with your mom or dad, it is essential that you resolve all of them. that they try to solve it in order to live together in peace. If the goal is to cultivate the relationship with your loved ones, then try to leave behind everything that can hinder you on this path, and Rebuild the broken bond with wisdom and love. It's never too late to start over.

Enjoying common hobbies

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Lastly, take advantage of shared hobbies to share with your family members If, for example, you used to go to concerts with your father, don't stop doing so in the present or if you liked to play chess with your brothers and sisters, organize yourselves to take up this tradition again. There are many things you can do to keep in touch, and if you share common interests with your loved ones, it's even easier!

May they never lack gestures or phrases of love to express to their family of origin how important they are in their lives. An iron circle of people who know them better than anyone else and who in this new stage, in which they proudly wear their golden rings, will be there to support and advise them whenever necessary.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.