10 steps to prepare a romantic weekend: time to unwind and enjoy love and life

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Evelyn Carpenter

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Whether it's because it's your anniversary, someone's birthday, or simply because you wanted a moment for the two of you, spending a weekend together, without distractions, will be the best thing to do as a couple.

How to make it unforgettable? Although it will depend on the tastes of each couple, there are some infallible steps that should not be skipped. At least, if you are thinking of giving yourself this treat without leaving home. The manual of romanticism in 3, 2, 1 is open!

1. Disconnect

You've had enough pandemic-related news these past few months, so the first step to having a dream weekend is to turn off the TV and disconnect from your cell phones so nothing will distract you or keep you from enjoying this time just for the two of you.

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2. A good menu

Cooking together at home has a special magic, so that's another ingredient that shouldn't be missing from your weekend. Choose a menu with all the times set the mood with good music and let's get to work!

They will have fun preparing the appetizer, the starter, the main course and even the dessert, if they dare with pastries. And then it will be time to taste, while they toast with a good wine, laugh, share anecdotes and perhaps plan a trip.

3. Assembly and decoration

A nice tablecloth, impeccable cutlery, candles, a centerpiece with flowers... If the goal is to spend a romantic weekend, these elements will also help. You can even scent the house with some aphrodisiac essence, such as nutmeg, ginger or sandalwood essential oil. Stimulating all the senses will be a good idea. .

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4. Ad-hoc dress

And they should not forget to choose a suitable outfit for the occasion, or at least, an outfit that is not one of the ones they usually wear. It'll be fun to dress up a bit and will give your romantic candlelit dinner an extra special touch.

5. A gift

It doesn't have to be an expensive gift by any means, but it will certainly surprise the couple. a with some detail will add points to your date extra large Whether it's a box of chocolates, a pen, a pair of personalized mugs or simply a card with a love dedication, the delivery will leave them with a very emotional moment!

6. Immortalize the appointment

As a result of the pandemic, I'm sure that these last few months they haven't been able to take many panoramas and, therefore, have accumulated few snapshots. More than enough reason, then, not to let this moment pass They can take as many pictures as they want, but they are not allowed to connect to social networks.

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7. The minute of confessions

Since it will be an intimate instance, with romance in the air, make the most of this experience as well. to tell each other the things they feel From talking about the attention in the relationship, to talking about the possibility of having a child, among other topics that you will be able to talk about.

8. A touch of seduction

Then, if it comes to ignite passion, there are certain elements that do not fail Among them, a relaxing bubble bath, a massage session with some stimulating oil and a blindfold, if you dare, to play with the senses. Prepare some special music to give free rein to what you can think of. Or, perhaps, you just prefer to dance to a song that identifies you, hugging each other.

9. Condition the room

A very important step! Even if you already know every nook and cranny of the room, the room will be the protagonist of your romantic weekend. Therefore, don't skimp on ideas and, for example, there is always the option of candles, background music and dim lighting.

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10. And the next day...

Wake up without alarm and start the day with a rich and filling breakfast in bed. It will be the best way to start the day and continue enjoying a weekend just for the two of you. What will the day hold for you? From a movie marathon to an impromptu picnic in the nearest park. Whatever you decide, this time together is sure to do you a lot of good and you'll already be thinking about when to do it again.

You can see that you don't need to book a suite You just need a bit of creativity and the desire to be with that special someone to enjoy a weekend full of romance.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.