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If you're counting down to exchanging your wedding rings, get ahead of these situations that will happen to you. Or, rather, that won't happen to you.

Married life is not a bed of roses and arguments will surely be part of everyday life. In any case, there is nothing that a phrase of love can't solve or a toast with your wedding glasses, as long as there is passion, will and tolerance from both of you. Can you imagine how your cohabitation will be? Take a break from what you are doing and read the following.

1. Romantic nights

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Expectation

Any given night can begin with a candlelight dinner Or, why not try a massage with aphrodisiac oils? Whichever romantic plan you choose, don't forget the candles in the room.

Reality

Any given night can start with both of you coming home tired from work, after an hour stuck in a traffic jam, I just feel like doing nothing The best-case scenario is to take a shower, grab a quick bite to eat, and go to bed together to watch a series or movie. After all, it's not so bad, is it?

2. Dedicated cooks

Expectation

The kitchen will be a fundamental space inside the house, because there they will give free rein to their creativity and will prepare together the most exquisite recipes They will become real chefs and will always be ready to surprise their guests with the best menu and will start the day with nutritious breakfasts in bed.

Reality

Hopefully they'll grab a coffee in the morning and finish breakfast on the way to work. And time in the week is scarce. You will discover that there is nothing more comfortable than ordering a pizza or Chinese food. Dedicating yourself to cooking will be on your list of things to do, although it is always good for your relationship as well as for your health, even if it is only for a day at the weekend, take time to prepare a meal for the two of you. and make sure you have a balanced breakfast.

3. Always regal

Expectation

Marriage will suit them well and they will reflect that day after day. They'll even look like a couple in a movie! Among other benefits, sex rejuvenates, slims, and energizes, and you'll be proof of that. Once you exchange your gold rings, you'll look better than ever.

Reality

Marriage doesn't work miracles and you really will be the same as ever. Don't expect to be told otherwise. The truth is, though, if they're happy, they'll be more radiant and they'll feel it. Regardless of whether they're dressed for a party or in those sweatpants they don't take off on Sundays.

4. Inseparable

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Expectation

You'll be eager to share experiences together, from joining the gym, to taking a photography or cooking course on the weekends. You'll miss each other every time you're apart They'll look forward to coming home and having a long conversation about how the day went. They'll even love visiting the in-laws and won't plan anything without asking each other first.

Reality

They will be looking forward to the weekend, but to go out with their friends. They will need their independence, of course. And, if it comes down to choice, they will prefer not to accompany their partner to visit their parents. Also, don't force each other to have to share hobbies or interests. Everyone has their own world The important thing is to respect each other's space and learn to live with their differences.

5. The details

Expectation

Flowers, chocolates, stuffed animals, jewels, love letters, invitations to dance and even serenades with mariachis... All this and more are some of the details with which will be surprised on a daily basis They'll manage to give each other a treat and, every time they're on their anniversary, they'll be quick to set off fireworks.

Reality

Creativity will go down and, at most, they will send a short love phrase to each other's cell phone if it is a special day. This does not mean that they will love each other less, but that routine will do its thing. In addition, material gifts will lose more and more value, because they will discover that it is the bond that unites them that is fundamental. .

If for now your biggest conflict is to agree on the decoration for marriage, later perhaps it will be the raising of children. Life as a couple is not easy and, although sometimes it becomes a little routine, never miss the love phrases to dedicate in the happy moments, but also in the most complicated.