The Role of Bridesmaids in Marriage

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Evelyn Carpenter

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Have you been chosen as a bridesmaid, but you don't really know what you have to do, not even if the dress is chosen by the bride or you? Don't worry, there is a list of tasks -not very difficult to accomplish- focused on the bride not being overburdened on such an important day. If you are really lost, we advance you that going to the wedding dress fitting with her, will give you the best way to get the bride's bridal gown.advice on the color of the wedding decorations and even sharing a playlist for the party are some of these tasks that, to a greater or lesser extent, you'll have to do. Oh, and of course, be there every time you need to let off steam, but I'm sure you already knew that!

The best ideas

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A bridesmaid has to be very motivated to find the best information. The idea is that she acquires the best information. some useful references to give to your friend Looking for ideas on decorations, wedding tapestries or the contact of that bridal make-up artist. Although the responsibility is clearly not the bridesmaid's, she can be of great help, especially if she knows the bride's taste.

Emotional containment

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You'll notice that the bride is full of ideas, thoughts and feelings, so perhaps she'll there will be times when you will feel overwhelmed Here your role is very important, as you must bring these emotions down to earth, listen and understand the bride to help her cool down. A good coffee with friends is an excellent therapy.

The search for the dress

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You know your friend and her tastes, so you are the perfect person to help her find the right designer or bridal fashion house. that best suits your style and budget Accompany her in this stage that can become a real marathon or a very special experience. Your opinion is surely very important to her, so she will value very much if you like the simple wedding dress she is trying on or if you advise her to keep looking for other cuts. Even if she has to try on a thousand models, stay patiently by her side with your best critical eye. And you will surelyyou will have a great time together!

What hairstyle to wear?

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From the moment the bride got engaged, more than one idea went through your head when it came to styling, because you know her so well, you have a more or less clear picture of what he likes This is why hairstyle advice fits perfectly on your to-do list. You can base it on what you know looks good for her to try; for example, if she's a fairly natural bride, you can recommend a bridal hairstyle with loose hair, cute braids or a ponytail.

The preparation

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Surely the mother will be helping her to put on her lace wedding dress without wrinkles and everything is perfect. But no one better than bridesmaids to lighten the mood A few glasses of champagne or pisco sour, music and a lot of laughter will be of great help for the bride to leave her nerves aside. In addition, accompanying her will allow her to know all the details of her styling, this way she will know if she will need help to pick up the train of her dress or to remove her veil after the ceremony, among other important tasks that you should be very attentive to.

Help in case of emergency

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You should consider having a complete emergency kit for the bride on her wedding day as well, in case of any emergency, be prepared Ideally, a kit with thread and needles, replacement buttons, make-up, red eye drops, headache pills, wadding pills, etc. Better to be safe than sorry.

Organize the bachelorette party

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It'll be you and the whole bridesmaids' party. responsible for making the party unforgettable. For example, if he doesn't like vedettos, avoid them and prepare an original activity. Make sure it's a celebration in his style so that he can relax and have a good time.

Honeymoon suitcase?

The honeymoon is part of the organization of a marriage. This does not mean that you pack your suitcase for her, but that together you and your spouse can make a list of the things that must be included You should bring everything you need, from documents such as passport and local money, to a short party dress if you are going, for example, to the Carnival in Rio de Janeiro, sunscreen to protect you from the sun or comfortable shoes to walk around your chosen destination.

If you are a bridesmaid it is because the bride has a great appreciation for you and what she will want most is for you to be there to accompany her on her way to the altar. And beyond helping her in the quotation of the wedding rings or finding poems with love phrases for the vows, the most important thing will be that big hug after the "yes, I do".

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.