Something old, new, borrowed and blue, what items to wear?

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Evelyn Carpenter

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If it's about bridal traditions, wear something blue, something borrowed, something old and something new is one of the ones you will have heard the most.

And if you're superstitious, you'll want to put it into practice in your marriage, answer all your questions below!

Origin of the tradition

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It was in the Victorian era, in the United Kingdom, that the rhyme " something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a silver sixpence in her shoe ".

This phrase, which translates as "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe," referred to items that the bride was to wear at her wedding.

It was believed at the time, these amulets would attract happiness and economic prosperity and at the same time ward off the evil eye.

Except for the mention of the coin in the shoe, wearing something old, new, borrowed and blue is a tradition that is still very much alive and well these days.

How to put it into practice

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If you want to fulfill this ritual, it will be as simple as incorporating one element for each category into your bridal look.

Yes, something new, something old, something borrowed and something blue has a meaning that is not random, particularly connected to the past, to the present and to love in its widest dimension.

What is the meaning of something new, something old, something borrowed and something blue? Read on to find out.

Something old

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For the bride to incorporate something old into her styling represents her history and gives value to her roots.

It is about to give continuity to family traditions The ones that are passed on from generation to generation, never forgetting where they come from.

What to bring to comply with this point? Something old for the bride can be an heirloom accessory For example, a piece of jewelry that belonged to your grandmother, the veil your mother wore at her wedding or a cameo that belonged to your father that you can attach to your bouquet of flowers.

But if you don't have the option of inheriting an antique piece, another alternative is to go to your own jewelry box and choose an accessory you were given as a child.

Something New

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Looking to the future with optimism, hope and illusion has to do with the new, with this stage that begins now with marriage and that will be full of longings and experiences to discover.

In addition to your wedding dress, you're sure to have several new items in your outfit, such as earrings, headdress or footwear .

However, if you're going to choose shoes as the new thing, try to wear them for the first time on the day of your wedding. That is, after trying them on in the store, don't wear your shoes again until the big day. Not even to soften them, since they're meant to be brand new.

Versus something borrowed, something blue or something old, new will be the easiest to get.

Something borrowed

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Borrowed refers to fraternity, friendship and companionship. According to British tradition, that object must be borrowed, not only by someone who is close to the bride, but also pass on his happiness and good fortune to you .

So, if you have a happily married sister or friend, ask her to provide you with a nail polish, a medal to hang around your neck, or her garter, among other ideas.

But once the celebration is over, you will have to return that borrowed item so that luck will be with you both.

Something blue

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Why should brides wear something blue? The story goes that blue symbolizes the fidelity and loyalty that should reign between the bride and groom, as well as the bond of love that will be consolidated between the families of the bride and groom.

And in the case of integrating it into the outfit, something blue for the bride can be, from a hidden seam in the suit, for example with the date of the wedding, to an eye-catching necklace with a sapphire stone, if the aim is to make the color stand out.

Or you can also choose a bouquet with natural blue flowers, such as hydrangeas, dahlias or hibiscus. Otherwise, wearing something blue will allow you to go in harmony with the groom, if he will wear a suit or tie in that tone.

If you like to comply with all the traditions, the new, the old, the borrowed and the blue cannot be missing in your bridal outfit, because these four amulets will be the omen of a prosperous and happy life!

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Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.