How should a bridesmaid go to a wedding?

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Mothers of the bride and groom are usually chosen as bridesmaids, although it is also possible that a close friend or relative of the couple may be chosen. If you have been chosen for this mission, feel lucky because you will not only have to sign the wedding certificates, but you will also be very close to the bride and groom during the preparations.

In fact, you're probably one of the privileged few who will have access to the wedding dress before everyone else. And when it comes to your own wardrobe, the important thing is that you feel comfortable, but at the same time meet certain standards that will make you dazzle.

Elegance

How should a bridesmaid go to a wedding? Elegance and discretion are two keys that usually make the look stand out. Since you will play a fundamental role in the ceremony, it is essential that your wardrobe is in tune with the task you have been given.

Whether you are the mother, the sister or the best friend of the groom or the bride, the right thing to do is to opt for a dress with simple lines. For the same reason, it is recommended to discard the princess cut dresses and mermaid silhouette, opting for designs such as straight, A-line, empire or flared. In addition, the ideal is to opt for plain dresses, in a single color and with striking details. For example,a jeweled belt, a draped neckline or a pleated skirt.

And remember that the white and its derivatives, unless the dress code otherwise, it is reserved exclusively for the bride.

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In daytime weddings

Although the strictest protocol indicates that bridesmaids must wear long dresses, nowadays it is not a determining rule, especially if it is a daytime wedding, where short and midi (mid-calf length) designs are totally accepted.

If you will choose between short dresses for bridesmaid A mikado suit, for example, will make you look very sophisticated. On the other hand, the midi cut is ideal to choose loose-fitting flared or A-line designs, whether they are made of chiffon or lace, among other light fabrics.

With regard to the colour, for daytime links are suitable the bridesmaid dresses in pastel or powdered tones However, if the bride will opt for a beige dress and not white, then it is best to look for a color that does not resemble it. In that case you could choose a mint green dress.

And since the shoes will be on display with a short or midi model, try to wear a high or medium heeled shoe that matches the garment. Shoes in nude for example, combine well with soft tones.

In evening weddings

But if the celebration will be in the evening, how should the bridesmaid dress? Long dresses are perfect for evening weddings, as they exude elegance and sobriety, but you will have to know how to distinguish which one best suits your wedding style.

If the wedding will be in a church, and then move on to the reception at a glamorous hotel, dresses in satin or lustrous fabrics will be a good choice, including mikado, charmeuse and satin. However, if the wedding will be in a more rustic setting, a pleated empire cut dress, tulle, chiffon or bámbula, will make you feel lighter without losing distinction.

But midi wedding bridesmaid dresses are also suitable for evening wear. For example, for an autumn/winter wedding, you will dazzle in a velvet A-line design with slightly puffed sleeves.

As for the colors for the evening, except for black, which is not recommended for bridesmaids, you can choose from dresses in blue, purple, emerald green, burgundy and dark gray, among others.

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Sleeves and necklines

Although the protocol indicates that bridesmaids should not wear their arms uncovered, today this rule is increasingly obsolete. And therefore, you can choose between bridesmaid dresses with short, long or French (three-quarter) sleeves.

Dresses with French sleeves with tattoo effect, for example, will be a good complement to a discreet dress. And you can privilege more closed necklines, such as boat, round, illusion and V-neck, both in civil marriage godmother dresses and in dresses to wear in the church.

Hairstyle

Since you'll be signing the wedding certificates, handing out the tapes, giving a speech and posing for lots of photos, among other bridesmaid activities, it's best to opt for a comfortable updo, whether it's an elegant low ponytail, a romantic braided bun or a flirty side swept updo with waves, among other possibilities.

But if you have short hair, you can always embellish your hair with a nice accessory. If you will choose between daytime bridesmaid dresses and also your dress will be short, accompany your styling with a beautiful pamela. Or a headdress or hairpin with rhinestones, if the wedding will be at night.

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Complements

And as for other accessories, you're probably wondering how to dress up for a party if you're the godmother. The advice is to complement your outfit with discreet jewelry, always making sure it matches the neckline. For example, if you're wearing a round-necked and closed outfit, discard the necklace and choose a pair of medium earrings.

But if the neckline is a V-neckline, then you can showcase a chain or necklace that harmonizes with a fine bracelet. In fact, any delicate jewelry will go very well with a bridesmaid dress in Chile.

As for the handbag, go for a clutch and then you can choose a design with glitter, if that's what you want. Since it's a small item, it won't fail to look elegant.

Finally, select a cover-up according to the season in which the wedding will take place. It can be a lace bolero, for mid-season or a faux fur stole, for weddings in colder seasons. Of course, you will also find party dresses that already have a cape built in.

After the bride, the godmother will be the most important female figure of the wedding, and in addition to her own tasks, she will often assume the role of hostess. Whether you are the mother or the best friend, it is important that you choose your wardrobe to match the responsibilities.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.