9 different toast ideas - one for every style of couple

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Evelyn Carpenter

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Whether or not you are a shy couple, the truth is that your guests deserve a few words of thanks, but don't worry, they don't necessarily have to be your own words. And just as you will personalize your wedding decorations, opting for a particular theme or trend, it is also possible to give a twist to the traditional speech of the newlyweds. Check out thefollowing proposals to make your toast an even more original moment.

1. Stand up comedy speech

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If either or both of the bride and groom have a knack for making people laugh, dare with a speech in stand up comedy format This style of "stand-up comedy", so fashionable among comedians nowadays, consists of creating a monologue, usually with hints of irony and black humour, in which the audience plays a fundamental role. They will be able to tell anecdotes of their love story. or the mishaps that happened in your preparation for marriage, among other facts that will be attractive. You will make a difference with a speech of this type.

2. Emotional speech

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Another way to make the toast is through a speech that appeals to emotionality. They can choose a romantic song that identifies them and dedicate some beautiful phrases of love to each other, as well as to your family and friends. There are sure to be several who will end up wiping their tears.

Poetic discourse

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If they don't have the ideas to write their own speech, poetry is always a good alternative. Whether they are Chilean or foreign poets, the range of poets to explore is wide. When it's time for the speech, just read it in a slow tone and then invite them to drink a toast. It will create a super romantic atmosphere.

4. Dynamic discourse

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On the other hand, if you want to involve your guests in your toast One idea is to pass around a glass, or perhaps a bouquet of flowers, and each person to whom it arrives can say a few words. Something brief so as not to delay the process too much. Or it could be a representative from each table who speaks up. It will be a novel and entertaining toast.

5. Decorate the glasses

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Since you're sure to treasure them, personalize the wedding glasses with which you'll make the official toast. Depending on the stamp you put on your marriage You can choose to decorate them with natural flowers, sprigs of lavender, pearls, crystals, frost, silk ribbons, jute ribbons, lace fabric, acrylic paint, shells or starfish. You can even cover them with black fabric, buttons and bow tie to emulate the groom and with a white tulle to symbolize the bride. It will be a detail that will steal all the attention of the bride and the groom.attention.

6. Include a video

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Especially if you find it difficult to speak in public, another proposal to make the toast will be to first project a video where they express their emotions and gratitude. You can record it, for example, in the place where you met or where you got engaged to give it a more special touch. So, once the video is finished and with the emotion at its peak, you will only have to invite your family and friends to do the "cheers".

7. With your favorite drink

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Another way to personalize the toast is to replace the traditional champagne with your favorite drink. Why toast with this sparkling beverage if you don't really drink it every day? Better put a personal stamp on this ritual and raise your glasses with pisco sour, wine, beer or whiskey, among other beverage options. And if you don't drink alcohol, don't mind toasting with lemonade or juice.

8. With dance

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If you want to surprise your guests with an original toast, another bet is to set up a choreography, be it playful, sensual, romantic, whatever you want! can incorporate bridesmaids and best men The idea is to have the glasses at hand so that, once the dance floor is finished, the waiter will come, fill them up and toast. With this act you can mark the beginning of the dance party.

9. With paraphernalia

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And if you want to make your toast images look spectacular, then prepare a balloon launch with helium, soap bubbles, rice butterflies, or confetti And even, if you're having your wedding cake outdoors, in a large space and with all the safeguards, you could launch flying lanterns, also known as wishing balloons. It will be a nice way to end the speech and clink your glasses for the new stage you've just begun.

When to toast

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Although it is relative according to each couple, the time for the toast generally occurs at the beginning of the banquet, once everyone is installed in the hall, or at the end of the meal. The important thing is not to interrupt lunch or dinner. If you plan to keep the speech brief, you may want to open the banquet with this official toast. However, if you plan to say a little more, then the best option is to do it at the end of the meal. Otherwise, the bride, groom and guests will be more relaxed at that time and it won't be difficult for them to raise their voices if it's their turn to make a speech.

The toast of the newlyweds is one of the traditions that is still very much alive, and although this and others have been renewed in one way or another, the truth is that a celebration is not conceivable without the classic "chin-chin" of the glasses of the celebrated.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.