8 promises every couple should make to make their relationship work

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Evelyn Carpenter

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However representative they may be, wedding rings do not guarantee eternal love, so it is essential to take care of the relationship to strengthen it and grow as a couple.

So, if you want to raise your wedding glasses for a new and happy anniversary until you are old, there are some promises that you should be willing to make and with pleasure, but not just love phrases in the air, but a commitment for life.

1. Let the laughter last

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A healthy sense of humor is essential In that sense, you should promise each other that, come what may, you will be able to share it, even better, will always try to start the day with a smile and end up with an even bigger one.

Not for nothing laughter is considered the best medicine Or is there anything better than laughing out loud with your loved one?

2. Break the monotony

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Even if you're sure of your feelings, many couples fall into a routine and that's when the problems start. So, promise that you will also will not lose the gestures or small details that make a difference, like surprising each other with a gift or sending a beautiful love phrase to each other's cell phone at any time of the day. Anything goes if it's about strengthening the bond so dare to trade comfort for action.

3. Always listen to each other

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It seems like a no-brainer, but not all couples take the time to listen to each other carefully. And, especially in times when the virtual world rules, another important promise is maintaining trust and complicity being there ready, present and alert to listen to the partner.

In fact, look for the an opportunity for relaxed conversation without distractions. As much as possible, leaving aside issues such as wedding decorations and souvenirs, if you are in the process of organizing the wedding.

4. Respect their space

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Respecting space is key to a successful relationship, and no matter how much you want to spend time together, both need their independence as well as being alone at certain times.

Promise, therefore, that shall not encroach on that line They will not be burdened with unwarranted jealousy, always respecting the individual world of each one and letting it grow.

5. Honesty above all

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Either before or after exchanging your gold rings, sincerity, loyalty and fidelity will be the basis of their relationship and hence this promise can never be broken.

Even, as hard as it may seem in some cases, take the path of truth will always be better if they want to to build together a healthy and loving future Also promise learn to apologize and forgive It will only make them greater.

6. Love and tolerate each other

The two promises go hand in hand, since if they love deeply, they will be able to tolerate, to compromise and, most importantly and perhaps most complicated, to accept the loved one as he/she is with his/her mistakes and faults without trying to change it.

On the other hand, life as a couple is full of decisions and, in that sense, will have to be able to row as a team Far from leaning towards one or the other wedding cake, these will be decisions that will often confront you, but that you will be able to overcome with maturity and a lot of love.

7. Enjoying the everyday

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Take advantage of the synergy that exists between the two of you and don't stop doing those things that you both enjoy Even if they seem simple, such as watching a Netflix marathon, going out to eat or running together.

In addition, date your activities not to postpone them -that way they will have no excuses- and dare to live new adventures Remember that each experience will enrich the relationship.

8. Be a pillar in adversity

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The immensity of a relationship is celebrate together the joys and triumphs but also support each other in times of greatest difficulty .

Therefore, whatever obstacle, sadness, illness, failure or disappointment the other person is facing, the promise is to be there unconditionally holding back, consoling and wiping away tears with temper, patience and, above all, a lot of love.

Engagement ring or not, or date in the civil registry or not, the most important thing is that both of you keep your promises because that's how it is born, from small gestures like dedicating a short but heartfelt love phrase, to undertaking big projects together as a married couple.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.