5 simple tips for saying "I do".

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Evelyn Carpenter

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As the months of wedding planning go by and the big day approaches when you will walk down the aisle in your wedding dresses and gowns, you can't stop thinking about all the key moments of the ceremony and the celebration, such as the exchange of wedding rings or the vows with beautiful phrases of love that you have prepared for so many months. But what is takingall the attention is a small phrase: the unforgettable "I do" that will unite them forever.

We know how important it is for the couple, as it encompasses everything magical and special that they have been waiting for. For this reason, we want to give you some tips so that everything goes perfectly and the nerves are not superior.

1. Breathe

The essential thing before speaking is to take a deep breath and, with a big smile, to say those beautiful words that will remain engraved in your memory.

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2. Focus on your partner

Stare at each other and think about the words you are about to utter will help them to do it slowly and out loud.

3. Handkerchiefs by hand

If they get excited easily and believe that at that moment they are they won't be able to keep a tear from falling The parents, who will be next to the couple at the altar, can carry it. Express everything you feel without shame. There is nothing more beautiful than being free to express the love you feel for your partner.

4. Speak without rushing

The long awaited "I do", it is the a unique and unique moment of the couple That's why we advise you not to hurry when talking, because you have all the time to do it calmly. It's your marriage! You can take your time if you need to recover from an emotional moment.

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5. Rehearse the vows

If they are going to read the votes and you wrote them yourselves It is better to rehearse those short love phrases that they have written down, so that they know them almost by heart. They have to sound very natural and come straight from the heart. If the vows are in the church and they are to be repeated in front of the priest You can change them to Christian phrases of love that will touch everyone in the parish.

That moment of "I do" is so personal, that like everything, generates many expectations and anxieties, but with these tips you will surely enjoy that special moment. And if you want to accompany it with some love phrases to make it even more emotional, look for texts in your favorite songs or poems. You can even use some at the time of toasting with your glasses of marriage and that each guestknow how important your attendance is to you.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.