10 forbidden phrases at a bachelorette party

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Evelyn Carpenter

We know you are extremely confident with your friend, but you should keep in mind that all women before marriage are more sensitive than ever and, why not, stressed. Your friend's bachelorette party should be unforgettable for her. It should be the most relaxed and entertaining night of her single life. That's why we want to warn you of 10 things that under no circumstances should be done to her.circumstances you can tell your friend, even with a few too many drinks. Just don't say them!

1. Be careful, don't drink too much!

It's not the day to take care of your friend for having a few too many drinks. Maybe she's overdoing it, but she's celebrating her last night as a single woman and in between all the wedding formalities she deserves to get a little bit of time off. So this time go with her like never before and just tell her "take it easy, I'll take care of you and your things".

2. Was this the song you had with your ex?

No, what a drag! Remembering an ex at the bachelorette party, ugly! Even if that song is playing or the ex is there by chance, don't bring him to the dance, no matter how entertaining the topic is. Remember, your friend is in love and that's why she only wants to talk about her future husband.

3. How much will the bill be?

This is not your friend's problem on this night! If you usually share all the bills, or always agree to frequent inexpensive places, omit this habit on this day, since your friend should not know about any bills, prices, or anything else. She is the guest of honor and you know it.

4. How far away this place is!

Maybe the place where you organized the farewell is far away from everything and another time you would discuss it with your friend. Well, this time avoid letting her know that this is a bother for you, because it will not be pleasant for her to know that you are complicated with the distance.

5. What a great sister-in-law and mother-in-law you have in common

Avoid these comments, however often you make them and they are welcomed by your friend. Tonight don't create negative energy, be as friendly as possible and include her sister-in-law and mother-in-law.

6. Look, that guy over there is flirting with you.

Don't be pushy! Just because it's her last night of her bachelorette party, she doesn't have to flirt with anyone. Let her enjoy herself the way she wants and feels best at her bachelorette party.

7. Your boyfriend saw you!

Your friend knows she's acting crazier and crazier than ever, but that's the whole point of the bachelorette party, to blow off steam and relax. No matter how jokingly you tell her, she's probably not going to feel good if you remind her what her boyfriend would think if he saw her like this.

8. How does it feel to have the last day of freedom?

You don't need to keep reminding her all night that she's getting married, she knows that. If you do, use nicer words. The idea is that she gets the best energy that night. Change this question to one along the lines of "How does it feel to start a new life?

9. Where are the vedettos?

If your friend didn't want vedettos it's because she doesn't like them, get over it! Not all women want to have naked men at their bachelorette party. Some prefer a women's only night out or a day at a spa. If you wanted vedettos, don't let her know.

10. I didn't imagine your bachelorette party like this...

No matter how disappointed you feel about your friend's bachelorette party, don't let her know. On the contrary, tell her that you loved everything and you're happy to be with her that day. Remember, it's her bachelorette party, not yours.

Evelyn Carpenter is the author of the best-selling book, All you need for your marriage. A Marriage guide. She has been married for over 25 years and has helped countless couples build successful marriages. Evelyn is a sought after speaker and relationship expert, and has been featured in various media outlets including Fox News, Huffington Post, and more.